relationship counseling.
Family Mediation.

Dr. Alan Winder is a Licensed Psychologist (NY & NJ,) and a Certified Divorce & Family Mediator. He provides Individual and Couples Counseling, Psychotherapy, and Divorce & Family Mediation services. Using a practical, solution-oriented approach, sessions with Dr. Winder are focused on only one thing: helping get the results that matter to YOU.

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Dr Winder

Dr. Winder has 15+ years of experience in treating depression, anxiety disorders, life adjustment difficulties, addictions, and a variety of other sub-specialties. He also provides a broad array of specialized psychological services including relationship counseling, behavioral modification, executive coaching, inpatient and facility-based mental health services, and corporate consultation. All work is done in-office or by HIPAA-Compliant videoconferencing. Dr. Winder is a licensed Psychologist (NY, NJ) and a Certified Divorce & Family Mediator.

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Dr. Winder's services


Improve your life by identifying areas of needed improvement, making a concrete plan to work on these areas, and implementing this plan in an organized, effective way. Dr. Winder is experienced in treating a wide variety of psychological issues with the goal of having a positive and lasting impact on your life.

Couples Counseling

Relationship difficulties can affect every aspect of your life. Dr. Winder uses his unique method of collaborative goal-building and implementation to can help you and your partner identify areas of potential improvement, and allow you to elevate the quality of your relationship in whatever ways you find most meaningful.

Divorce Mediation

Mediation is the way to make the best of a difficult situation. You don’t need to fight in court. Learn how Dr. Winder can help. Save tremendous amounts of money, avoid stressful conflict, high anxiety and decreased quality of life, and customize your agreement in a way that works best for you, your partner, and your kids.

Online Services

Dr. Alan Winder provides individual, couples, and relationship therapy online through convenient video sessions. He works to help you resolve your issues and progress towards a happy and fulfilling life right from the comfort of your home. With over 20 years of experience helping individuals lead better lives in New York and throughout the country, he is able to help you achieve the satisfaction in your relationship and your life that you deserve– through the easy use of video technology. All services are available via secure HIPPA-compliant videochat.

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what my clients say about me

Been suffering for a while in dealing with my emotional inconsistencies and Dr. Alan Winder is a very big help for me. His expertise is making rapid changes for my issues, his techniques are always very helpful. He's been really patient yet very professional. I am glad I decided to get some help from him.
Linda Fowler
Dr. Winder saved me from a devastating divorce process. He helped a lot to lessen the stress and of course the cost. His expertise really helped us to resolve our issues, he is humble, fair and made sure that we're seeing both sides. I made the right choice to get help from him. Highly recommended!
Karl Britton
have sent numerous patients to Dr.Winder over the past few years. Although each situation was completely different, he managed to figure out the issues and get each of them started on the right path. Dr. Winder takes tremendous pride in his work, which is one of the reasons he is so successful.
Rock Mishpacha

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